Oklahoma · Tulsa County
What to do when someone dies in Tulsa County, Oklahoma
Tulsa County is home to about 693,514 people. Everything below applies county-wide.
If you cannot afford burial or cremation in Tulsa County, call the Tulsa County Social Services first, before signing anything with a funeral home. If the person was a veteran, free burial benefits may cover even more.
Tulsa County Cremation and Burial Assistance
Tulsa County Social Services
When they answer, say: "I need to apply for burial assistance for a family member." It is okay if you do not have documents ready. They will tell you what to bring.
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Step 1 of 5 · If money is tight
Tulsa County burial assistance
Do not sign anything with a funeral home before you call. In many counties, signing first disqualifies the family.
Tulsa County program
Read this before you call
You must first contact a funeral home on the county's monthly rotation list and get a quote, and the funeral home submits the pre-screening application for you; the application asks whether a contract was signed or money was paid.
Tulsa County Cremation and Burial Assistance
Tulsa County Social Services
2401 Charles Page Blvd., Tulsa, OK 74127 (opens in Google Maps)
Official program pageWho qualifies
Tulsa County provides limited cremation and burial help when a person dies within Tulsa County and there is not enough money to cover final arrangements. The applicant and all surviving family members must have no other means to pay for the funeral costs. Family members must also have been turned down by other charities and faith based groups.
| Income | No dollar limit is published. Income of the applicant, the person who died and all family members must be documented. |
|---|---|
| Assets | The application asks about bank accounts, life insurance, burial insurance, property and vehicles of the person who died. No dollar limit is published. |
| Residency | The person must have died within Tulsa County, at a physical address. |
What it covers
Cremation and burial only. The county does not allow a viewing or service of any type under this program. Whether remains are released to the family is not published, so ask when you call.
Documents to bring
- Documentation of income for the applicant, the person who died, and all family members
- Physical address where the person died
- Information on the person's bank accounts, life insurance, burial insurance, property and vehicles
How to apply
Call a funeral home on the Tulsa County monthly rotation list and get a quote. If you do not know which one, the medical examiner (918-295-3400) or any hospital can tell you. The funeral home fills out the pre-screening application and contacts Tulsa County Social Services for you. Call 918-596-5560 with questions.
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Step 2 of 5 · If they served
Was the person a veteran?
This can replace the county program
You may be able to skip the county program entirely. Veterans can receive a free gravesite, headstone, and perpetual care at a national or state veterans cemetery, plus a VA burial allowance of up to $2,000 for service-connected deaths.
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Step 4 of 5 · The paperwork
Death certificates in Oklahoma
Where copies come from
Certified copies come from the Oklahoma State Department of Health, Vital Records Service (official site). The $15 record search fee is non-refundable and non-transferable, and it includes one certified copy if the record is found. Additional copies are $15 each with no discount. Online or phone orders through VitalChek are much faster, with Will Call pickup available within two business days, while mail can take 6 weeks. Mail goes to Vital Records Service, PO Box 248964, Oklahoma City, OK 73124-8964. Phone 405-426-8880 or email AskVR@health.ok.gov. You need the signed request form plus a photocopy of current valid photo ID.
Order about 10 certified copies. Banks, insurers, Social Security, vehicles, and property will each want one.
Know your rights
Every funeral home must follow these rules
Federal law (the FTC Funeral Rule) protects you. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.
- They must give you prices over the phone. Refusing is a federal violation. Call two or three homes; prices for identical services can differ by thousands on the same street.
- Embalming is rarely required by law. If someone claims it is legally required, ask them to show you the law. Direct cremation and immediate burial never need it.
- You can decline anything in a package. You have the right to an itemized price list and to buy only what you choose.
- You can buy a casket anywhere. The funeral home must accept it without charging a handling fee.
Full rules: the FTC Funeral Rule. If a funeral home breaks them, you can report it to the FTC.
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Step 5 of 5 · If you need more
Beyond the county, more help
Where families find the rest
- Dial 211 for local charities, churches, and county funds with money available right now.
- Ask local churches directly. Many congregations have benevolence funds for funerals even for non-members.
- Ask the funeral home about a payment plan or a simpler package. Direct cremation is usually the lowest-cost professional option, and prices vary widely between providers in the same city.
- Considering a fundraiser? Read crowdfunding a funeral: what works.
- And take care of you. Grief is not a checklist. If you are struggling, call or text 988 (free, 24/7) to talk to someone, and most hospices offer free grief support groups to the whole community, no connection to their patients required.
Right now
The first 48 hours
Nothing else on this page matters until these are done. Everything not on this list can wait, and most of it should.
- 1Get the pronouncement. Hospital or hospice handles it; at home, call 911.
- 2Ask one person to help. Making calls should not all be on you.
- 3Look for written wishes or prepaid arrangements before agreeing to anything.
- 4Money tight? Call the county FIRST. Signing with a funeral home first can disqualify you.
- 5Secure the home, pets, vehicles, and any dependents.
- 6Start one folder for every paper you receive. You will need it constantly.
- 7Banks and insurance can wait. That is week one, not today.
Questions families ask
Straight answers
Who pays for a funeral in Tulsa County if the family has no money?
Tulsa County's assistance program (Tulsa County Cremation and Burial Assistance) can cover a basic burial or cremation for families who qualify. Call 918-596-5560 before signing anything with a funeral home.
Does Social Security pay anything when someone dies?
Yes. An eligible surviving spouse or child can claim a one-time $255 lump-sum death payment by calling 1-800-772-1213, and monthly survivor benefits are often available too.
What if the person who died in Tulsa County was a veteran?
Veterans may qualify for free burial in a national or state veterans cemetery plus a VA burial allowance, which can matter more than any county program. See our Tulsa County veteran page for details.
How many death certificates do I need?
Most families need about 10 certified copies for banks, insurance, and property. In Oklahoma, order through the funeral home or the state vital records office.
How much does a funeral usually cost?
A traditional funeral with burial commonly runs $7,000 to $12,000. Direct cremation is usually the lowest-cost professional option, often $700 to $2,000, and prices vary widely between providers in the same area, so it pays to call two or three. Every funeral home must give you prices over the phone under the FTC Funeral Rule.
I have power of attorney. Can I still use it?
No, and this surprises almost everyone: a power of attorney ends the moment the person dies. After death, authority passes to the executor named in the will, or to a court-appointed administrator when there is no will. Funeral decisions belong to the next of kin in the order set by state law, usually spouse first, then adult children, then parents, then siblings.
Nobody had power of attorney. Is that a problem?
For after-death decisions, no. Power of attorney only matters while someone is alive. The next of kin can make funeral decisions right away, and the estate is handled through the will or, without one, through the state's simple next-of-kin rules. See our guide on what happens when there is no will.
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Step 3 of 5 · Money owed to you
The Social Security $255 payment
Who can claim it
A surviving spouse who was living with the person who died, or a spouse or child eligible for benefits on the deceased person's record.
Call Social Security at 1-800-772-1213 or visit a local office. You must apply within 2 years of the death. The funeral home often reports the death to SSA, but the survivor must apply for the payment.
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